Your growth and reputation matters

Whenever my  words hurt you,
Pierce your soul,
They in fact kill mine,
With double intensity.

Do you wonder how?
Do not be surprised,
Its because you are in my soul,
As an inseparable vibration of my vein,     
An indistinguishable breath of my heart.

May one question rise in your heart,
Then why do I use such words those hurt.

I wanted the gold in you to become purified,
So I burn you in fire,
I wanted the aroma in you to spread,
 In the atmosphere so I opened the bottle.

Parents often scold their children,
Don't they love them?
No, its only love that persuade them,
To do so.
I want your growth, reputation,
Its up to understand or misunderstand me.